“Kids learn more from what a parent does rather than what is stated.” During times of crisis, like a separation or divorce, our individual feelings of despair can be overwhelming. Yet it is during these trying times that it is imperative to put the needs of our children first. Children are not equipped to handle the stresses that adult situations place on them so parents should strive to demonstrate that they can set their own feelings aside and do what is best for their children. Co-parent in a respectful and loving way and your kids will remember.

Armed with the facts, we can face just about anything. Yet, when most people enter the divorce arena they have no idea what to expect; emotionally, financially, legally.  And they certainly don’t fully appreciate the restrictions that can be placed on them, merely due to filing an action for divorce in the courthouse.

As an attorney it is my job to advocate for my clients throughout the divorce process, once they have affirmatively chosen to move in that direction. But I also believe strongly in encouraging people to foster a supportive and caring relationship with their spouse before coming to see a divorce attorney.

“How much will it cost me to get divorced?” The question that family law attorneys hear from clients, time and again. The emotional stresses that come with separation, divorce, custody, etc., leave individuals feeling confused, uncertain and vulnerable. Add to this, the financial strain and it all seems overwhelming.

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Imagine being married for six years to the man of your dreams. The two of you enjoy the same movies, similar music, the same sports teams, you have a great house and a tight knit circle of friends who you enjoy spending time with. This is a relationship that you feel secure and safe in.

Tying the knot used to be a fairly commonplace in the United States for people in their 20s and maybe into their early 30s, but younger people now are changing the expected norms that earlier generations held for them.

Decisions left in the hands of the court rarely have the desired outcome that the parties intended and these decisions can be devastating for children. While there are religious customs and, sometimes, restrictions, that are expected to be observed in a devout setting, families should always remember that they have options.