Having equal representation in the legal arena is essential. And when it comes to something as personal as divorce, it is even more important. Far too many victims of domestic violence have gone unrepresented in the court system throughout the years, often being unempowered both emotionally and financially, with the abuser pulling all the strings.

The more you understand about your finances the better, especially during times of divorce or separation. If there is one thing that frightens people the most, during and after divorce, it is the uncertainty about being able to maintain or achieve a secure financial future.

The process of Collaborative Divorce is becoming more popular across the country, and across the world.  Crafting settlement agreements that are truly tailored to the needs of a specific family, and avoiding court altogether, is the way forward.  Finally, laws are catching up with this reality.

There is nothing more important than ensuring that your children are valued and protected during the divorce process. Courts are not properly equipped to handle the dynamics of each and every family and their specific needs.

When it comes to divorce, getting educated about the process is the most important thing that anyone can do for themselves. Not knowing what to expect can be the difference between feelings of self-determination or overwhelming feelings of dismay.

“Kids learn more from what a parent does rather than what is stated.” During times of crisis, like a separation or divorce, our individual feelings of despair can be overwhelming. Yet it is during these trying times that it is imperative to put the needs of our children first. Children are not equipped to handle the stresses that adult situations place on them so parents should strive to demonstrate that they can set their own feelings aside and do what is best for their children. Co-parent in a respectful and loving way and your kids will remember.

Armed with the facts, we can face just about anything. Yet, when most people enter the divorce arena they have no idea what to expect; emotionally, financially, legally.  And they certainly don’t fully appreciate the restrictions that can be placed on them, merely due to filing an action for divorce in the courthouse.

As an attorney it is my job to advocate for my clients throughout the divorce process, once they have affirmatively chosen to move in that direction. But I also believe strongly in encouraging people to foster a supportive and caring relationship with their spouse before coming to see a divorce attorney.

“How much will it cost me to get divorced?” The question that family law attorneys hear from clients, time and again. The emotional stresses that come with separation, divorce, custody, etc., leave individuals feeling confused, uncertain and vulnerable. Add to this, the financial strain and it all seems overwhelming.

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